I have witnessed many great dating performances by both sexes at the hundreds of speed dating events I have managed since 2004. But I have observed hundreds of blown opportunities by our daters who just weren't tuned into the "signs" that were been given off by their date. Body language is not difficult to learn and there are many small things you need to look for when engaged in conversation with someone you are attracted to. Below is a list of ideas for you to consider.
Do's
Do smile frequently at people you like and more importantly at their friends. Laugh a lot...it's contagious.
Do say hi to people as they go past, you will seem approachable and friendly.
Do make eye contact with those you fancy, but give them darting looks first, then a long lingering look.
Do watch your arm gestures. Keep your arms unfolded and the arm holding your glass away from your body.
Do have a novel or funny opening line.
Don'ts
Don't sell yourself short. Believe in your own worth and people will believe it too.
Don't think that everyone that speaks to you is attracted to you. They are allowed to be friendly.
Don't cross your legs or your arms. Direct your feet towards the person that you fancy.
Don't forget that most people are shy. Don't wait for them to make the first move, make it yourself and you will feel more confident.
Don't use a corny or boring opening line. Be creative.
Written by Hugh at GetOut.ie